How Co-parents Can Best Manage Easter School Holidays
Organising school holidays can test even the most robust relationships as parents juggle work commitments with a myriad of children’s activities.
With the Easter holidays underway, the school break - which is vital for children to recharge their batteries - can bring even greater disruption to daily patterns.
Anthony Parrish, a Partner with Jones Myers’ renowned Children’s Team, outlines how schedules also have to be rejigged at short notice when the unexpected happens, such as children falling ill.
For divorced and separated parents, many of whom do not have a support network, the above can be even more challenging. Here are some tips to help keep things on track.
The Importance of Communication, Cooperation and Compromise
In our extensive experience, effective organisation, communication, and collaboration between estranged parents are vital both during and outside school terms to ensure children’s best interests always come first.
The formula below helps to ensure stability in a shared commitment to children’s wellbeing while avoiding the court route - for which there is limited public funding - to determine arrangements.
Involve Children in Plans
During all school holidays, children will want to spend as much time as possible with both parents, their wider family including grandparents, and friends.
It is the responsibility of both parents to try to achieve this and may result in one parent spending less time with their child(ren) during the break.
Children and young people need certainty and security so let them know as far in advance as possible how, and with who, their holiday will be spent. This gives them time to adjust to any new arrangements.
Keep Talking and Communicating
Set aside your differences to always put your children’s interests first. Aim to plan school holidays as much in advance as possible so you can organise logistics such as travel, playgroups, and sporting activities.
Be Flexible
In cases where a court is involved, parents will be referred to a Planning Together for Children course which helps them to understand how to put their children first while undergoing separation.
The four-hour course helps parents learn the fundamental principles of how to manage conflict and difficulties. For more information, visit https://www.cafcass.gov.uk/parent-carer-or-family-member/my-family-involved-private-law-proceedings/help-planning-together-children
The Importance of Parenting Plans
Our dedicated, multi-award winning Children’s Department balances children’s and parents needs in wide-ranging issues.
Working closely with our clients, we devise the most suitable arrangements for children both now and in the formative years ahead.
We also highly recommend that separating parents have a Parenting Plan in place. This is a written plan which helps them to work out practical decisions in areas including communication, living arrangements, money, religion, education, and emotional well-being.
Providing a valuable reference point, it helps everyone involved to know what is expected of them.
The actions and decisions of separating and divorced parents can play a formative role in ensuring their children’s emotional happiness and well-being though their journey to adulthood.
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